Private Coaching · 1:1 · Chatswood, Sydney

You’re waiting on a change that might never happen.

You keep repeating the same patterns that ultimately affect your relationship. As much as you understand your own past, you still can’t find a way to respond with your true intention.

1:1 with Harrison · $60 · full refund if it is not for you

You may recognise this

You keep having the same argument, just with different words.

  • Your jaw tightens.
  • You go quiet.
  • You over-explain.
  • You say yes reluctantly.
  • You reach for your phone after the tension.

You can’t change what happens. But you can change how you respond.

Let me explain…

What people noticed afterwards

Awareness creates choice.

These are the changes people who trained with Harrison say they noticed, as written to him or said on camera.

Hear it from them

  • Took the mask off
  • Calmer under pressure
  • Present in the room
  • Less reactive
  • More decisive
  • Deliberate with my energy
  • Confidence in myself
  • Happier, day to day
  • Able to live it fully
  • Steady when it does not go my way
  • Courage for hard conversations
Harrison kneeling beside a client in seiza, one hand resting on the client’s chest while the client sits with eyes closedHarrison and another man face to face in silhouette against a glowing orange shoji screenHarrison sitting cross-legged on the grass at dusk, eyes closed, both hands held to his chestFour people seen from behind, looking up at the moon through the clouds at duskHarrison sitting cross-legged on the grass at dusk with a small group, a full moon over the harbour behind him

What happens in the session

Pause. Recognise. Choose.

One recent moment with one person who matters to you. Sharing is optional.

  1. 01 Choose

    Pick the moment.

    One relationship, one recent incident.

  2. 02 Pause

    Feel your feet. Take a breath.

    A moment before anything else.

  3. 03 Recognise

    Notice what is showing up.

    What do I notice in my body?

  4. 04 Practise

    Rehearse something different.

    Choose when you will practise it.

You leave with the tools to see what is happening inside you, and what stands between you and saying what you actually mean.

Most people can already name their patterns. What they lack is the space to express themselves, and a way to practise. In the end, it comes down to practice.

For example

Early signal
My jaw tightens
Usual reaction
I defend myself
Alternative
I pause and ask what they meant
  • 1:1 with Harrison
  • 45 minutes, 1:1 · $60, full refund if it is not for you
  • In person · Chatswood, Sydney
  • Bring comfortable clothing and an open mind

Coaching, not therapy. A practice for one situation that matters to you.

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Harrison Saito standing in his gi and black belt in front of a shoji screen

Who is coaching you

Discipline taught me how to push. Presence taught me when not to.

  • Harrison Saito. 2nd Dan black belt and Shido-In at Shinbukan Karate — the school his father, Kazuo Saito, 10th Dan, founded in 1978. More than seventeen years of discipline, repetition, patience and practice.
  • Ordained in 2014 at Koyasan Seizanji.
  • A practising high-school teacher, featured on SBS World News for his work with young people.
SBS3 generationsSince age 11

“My dad’s 81. I only really started talking to him three years ago.”

Harrison, on tape, 26 Aug 2026

The conversation he asks people to have is one he had first.

In their words

Who he is 3:03

What he teaches 4:31

Straight answers

Before you apply.

What does it cost?

The session is $60. If by the end you decide it is not for you, you get a full refund.

Do I have to share?

No. Sharing is optional. You choose one relationship and one recent, manageable moment, and how much of it you say out loud is up to you.

Why apply, rather than just book?

Harrison keeps a small number of 1:1 sessions and reads every application himself. He calls you first, a short conversation. Nothing to prepare.

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching. It is not therapy, diagnosis or emergency care, and it is not a replacement for any of them. If you are in crisis, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14.

Do I need to have trained before?

No. Plenty of people arrive having never trained. The practice is adapted to the person in front of me.

What if Harrison is fully booked?

You are first for the next opening. An application is never wasted.

One to one

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Leave your details and your application is under review. Harrison reaches out directly — you choose the window for his call.

1:1 with Harrison · $60 · full refund if it is not for you

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